listen, this is absolutely normal.
people are goin’ to be attracted to other people
while they’re in a relationship.
however, it’s up to you to not act on those
other attractions though.
the issue with most people is this,
— they tend to act on their attractions
for other people and that’s not good at all.
our partners, they want to feel loved.
our partners, they want to feel as if you’re
content with them as a whole.
....when people make it clear that they’re attracted
to other people, it creates this level of insecurity
in the partner that doesn’t need to be.
this is why, to an extent, dating a
[certain kind of person] is very f’ckin’ key.
because lmao, dating these incomplete, unsure,
insecure bozos ain’t no damn good at all.
someone that’s sure of themselves,
complete with themselves and secure with themselves,
they won’t do certain sh’t at all.
like no, they just won’t.
but anyway, if y’all feel differently about this,
sound off inna di comments.
if not, just enjoy the read.
(Season 2, Ep. 1 of
#TheTalks premieres next week).
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